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Patricia L. Behnke

March 18th, 1925 - August 15th, 2009

Patricia's Obituary

Patricia’s life began on March 18, 1925 in Dowagiac, the daughter of Ivan and Catherine (Ferrell) Howard. She was a 1943 graduate of Dowagiac Central High School. Patricia went to work for James Heddon and Sons, following school. She was united in marriage to Edwin A. Behnke on October 6, 1945 in Dowagiac. Patricia worked with Edwin on the family farm for many years and worked with him when he began the family business, Turf Services, all the while raising their children and caring for their home. After Edwin’s death in 1972, Patricia went to work at the Dowagiac Schools in the lunch program. She was known to many as either Grandma, Aunt Patty, or Momma B, however, it was the nickname “Angel” given to her by her late father in law Gottlieb Behnke, that describes her best. She will be greatly missed for her wisdom, kindness, and selflessness was far reaching. Patricia will be remembered for her cooking and baking- yeast breads and coffee cakes were the best. She was an active little lady and belonged to several organizations that were very important to her including the “Church Mailing Group” at St. John’s Lutheran Church were she was a long time member, the Chairettes, and the Southern Lake Michigan Lupus Chapter. Her greatest joy was her loving family which includes her son Michael (Sherrie Taylor) Behnke of Dowagiac, her daughters Patricia Ann Behnke of Dowagiac and Susan (Charles) Barnes of Minooka, IL, two granddaughters Melissa (Brian) Phillips of Dowagiac, and Meredith (Aaron) Marrs of Niles, three great grandchildren Drew and Nathan Phillips and Audrey Marrs, special brother in law and sister in law, Joseph Sestric and Janet Peck, and many wonderful nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Patricia passed away on Saturday August 15, 2009 at Borgess Lee Memorial Hospital. She is preceded in death by husband Edwin A. Behnke, brothers Robert Howard, and Marvin “Butchie” Peck and sister Doris Howard Geer. Her family will receive friends on Wednesday from 5-7 p.m. at McLauchlin-Clark Funeral Home where her memorial service will be held at 7 p.m. Wednesday led by Dr. Charles Burling. Memorial contributions in her name may be directed to Hospice Care of Southwest Michigan, Cass Co. Council on Aging or St. John’s Lutheran Church. Please sign her guestbook and leave a memory of Patricia at www.mclauchlin-clark.com

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