Chris's Memory Wall
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Dad...I miss you every single day. You were my best friendI am like you were in so many ways (I never have to think twice about were I get my "goofball" sense of humor from)...
Griffin & I are so blessed to have had you in our lives, though it seems like you were here for only the blink of an eye. And we are also so honored to say that are our father (You would just be in awe of who Griffin is today Dad)!
Not a day passes were you don't remind me that though you are not here with me anymore, you are in my heart.
You were loved by so many...I love hearing the memories, the stories...I am so proud of the righteous man you were.
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Molly Hocker
August 4th, 2010 at 12:00am
I miss you so much Chris! My wish is that the accident never happened! My mom is horrible everyday cause of that accident! I know your in a better place!
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Bethany Shepherd
October 13th, 2005 at 12:00am
To friends of Chris and his wife, I'm so sorry to learn of his death. It's been years since we've spent
much time together -- I remember him best as a todler and little boy, helping with the fruit farm.
My condolences to everyone. "Cousin, once removed", Linda
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Linda Rector
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
Ruth...I am so sad to hear about the passing of your husband Chris. I heard a lot of nice things
about him even though I never met him. My heart goes out to you and the family through these hard
times. Look to Lord for inner strength & peace it helps. I lost a loved one 8 yrs ago Ruth and to
this day its very hard on me but my strong faith in God and being a christian has really helped me
through the rough times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may god bless you and be with
you always.
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Lenette Evans & family
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
I was so very deeply saddened to hear of Chris' sudden and tragic death. The world has lost a great
guy, but heaven has welcomed a true angel! My heart pours out to Chris' entire family at this
difficult time and my thoughts and prayers are with you.. May you find comfort knowing that so many
loved and cared about Chris.
When I first heard the news, my immediate thoughts went right back to the fun times our LMC Laker
gang of friends shared with Chris throughout middle and high school. "Hocks" was such a loveable,
generous and kind guy who was always up for a good time. He brought smiles to many and how can
we forget his impish grin and infectious laugh?!? Although the years since the class of '78 have
passed and now, so has Chris, his memory will live on in our hearts forever. We'll see you again
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Helen McQuillan Distefano
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
I'm still in shock! When I first heard the news, I was hoping that it wasn't true. During the past
few days I've been thinking about all the good times we had in high school and college. I'm thankful
that Chris and I were able to reconnect over the last few years. He was always good to talk to when
I had a bad day at the office. Our phone calls were called our "Therapy Sessions!" Since we were
both in the same line of work, we could relate to the crazy things that we dealt with every day. I
will miss talking to him and hearing his laugh. Ruth, you and the family are in my thoughts and
prayers.
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Heidi Lull
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
Ruth: When Bonnie told me - I couldn't believe it. I am so, so sorry and so sad for you. I never
met Chris, but I have heard that he was a most wonderful human being. You were fortunate and
blessed to have him in your life and I am sure that he felt the very same about you. I can't get you
out of my mind - I have prayed that you will be filled with "....Peace that passeth all
understanding." Please take care of yourself. Lila
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Lila Megna
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
Ruth, words can not express our sadness.We hope that our prayers will give you strength in the
time ahead. We will always remember his laugh and the joy he gave you. Lee, Sara, Zak, Kelsi,
Erin, & Cameron Gast
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Lee and Sara Gast
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
It is with the deepest sorrow that the world as we know it has lost Chris. Ruth, Nancy, Molly,Griff
and family please accept our deepest sympathy. He was a wonderful son-in-law and
brother-in-law to the Behnke Family. We thank him for giving us two wonderful grandchildren.
God Bless you Chris. Go Cubs! See you in heaven.........
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Ed and Pam Behnke
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
In High School Chris (Hocks) was always smiling and laughing. You could always count on Chris
to think positive. When other members of the class find out, I'm sure they will be as sad as I am.
Chris was a good man. My thoughts are with the Hocker family. I have lost a friend.
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Bill Caldwell
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
Although we lost touch with each other, I still considered Chris a friend and a brother. I was
saddened by the news, but I know he is in a place that we all hope to be one day. Chris was a loyal
and devoted friend when we were in high school together. I just wish we could have been closer
once we graduated. I am comforted by all the memories that I still have of him, like the week we
spent together at the Notre Dame football camp and the exciting times we spent on the football
field. Chris, our prayers are with your family. You've touched everyone in a special way.
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Carl Morgan
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
To family & friends, I'll miss Hocks standing on the wrong side of the golfball, and I'll never forget
the left field bleachers at Wrigley, enjoy your seat Hocks.
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Joe & Kim Fellows
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
Chris was a great guy and we will miss him. Personally and professionally Chris was honest,
forthright and just a great person. I pray for his friends and family,
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Kenneth Zimmerman
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
To the family of Chris Hocker: We are deeply sorry for your loss and hope in the days to come the
wonderful memories of Chris will give you strength. We will always remember his wonderful
personality and smile. In sympathy, Wendy, Robert, Courtney and Sean Behnke
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Wendy and Robert Behnke
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
To the Hocker Family, I'm shocked and sadden at our loss. The pain you must be feeling has to be
unbearable. Hocks was the ultimate teammate and friend. Someone I could easily call Brother. I
would look forward to the times I could come home, and get together with the gang. I pulled down
my scrapbook last night to look back at the many good times we shared. On the very first page
there we were, pictures of us all together with big smiles on our faces. The good times were many,
and I pray that one day we will be reunited!
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Tom "DEEK" Damico
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
Nancy and family, Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss.
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Connie Gerencser
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
To Chris' family, I extend my deepest sympathy for this most tragic loss. All of us who knew Chris
were certainly better people for knowing a man who lived life to it's fullest and loved his family
endlessly. Chris helped me experience many of the highs and lows of my life, and I am definitely a
better person for having the chance to know and love Chris Hocker. Chris, thank you for being one
of my idols, and sharing your life with me. You will live within my heart forever. Thank you also
for your two wonderful children; who will carry your love with them forever. May you rest peace,
Hocks.
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Matt Behnke
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
The entire staff at Starks & Menchinger Family Funeral Home wishes to extend our sympathy to
your family.
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Starks & Menchinger Family Funeral Home
March 28th, 2004 at 12:00am
