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The Hamlins' and Canonies' go back to early 1940's. Mary and I were the same age, although Sally was in my grade, and Steve, whom was two years older, was my big time buddy. Actually the entire family were great friends. Mary was special, and she always cared for those of us that knew her, and befriended her. My sister, PJ, reminded me of how caring Mary was, when our dad was dying. Mary had that abundance of love for family, friends and those that needed care. She was a giver, and a true beauty in looks and more importantly, her inner sole. May God bless her, and my heart goes out to her family.
Tony Canonie Jr
Tony Canonie jr
January 8th, 2014 at 12:00am
Thinking of the whole Hamlin family during this sad time. You will be in our prayers. God be with you all
Rita Stieve-Behrman
January 8th, 2014 at 12:00am
We were very saddened to hear of Mary's death and wish to express our deepest condolences to all the Hamlins. We grew up right across the street from Hamlins and I have many fond memories of times shared together and of Mary, though I have not seen her for many years. Those were special times. I remember when my parents were away and PJ cut her face, I ran with her in my arms to your mom. PJ was screaming and bleeding, but your mom calmly said, "oh, she will need a couple of stitches." Life seemed so much simpler then. I will likely not be able to attend her funeral, but please know she and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your whole family was so there for us when our Canonie parents died and that meant so much to us. May God watch over you all in this difficult time and help you this major loss. Anne (Annamae)
Dr. Anne Canonie Weinrep
January 8th, 2014 at 12:00am
My oldest brother Tony was so correct in writing how far back the Hamlins and Canonies go. Our two families shared a side street that was a conduit for kids. Our folks almost matched child for child. When evening came and play was over, Charlie Tuncecke would help get kids home. There were a couple of times when a Hamlin or Canonie was switched accidentally and deposited into the wrong house. We shared a childhood and a neighborhood culture that exists no more.
Losing the four parents was tough. But losing Mary shakes our world. I know I speak for my siblings when I say to her children, Frank, and the entire extended Hamlin family our hearts are broken too.
Mary was kind when we were kids; Mary lived a life of professional kindness. When we flew Dad home from Florida to die, Mary was the first to greet us at 900 and immediately established Hospice services. I will never forget seeing her beautiful familiar face after many years and the flood of relief for her presence.
Somewhere someone has a picture taken of Mary, Sally, my husband Ric and I at Mrs. Davis's this past October. I don't have a copy of that picture but I can remember that happy moment. And that is how I am going to remember her...along with a whole lot of gratitude, respect and love.
God bless you all.
PJ (Patty) Canonie-Bubin
PJ Canonie-Bubin
January 9th, 2014 at 12:00am
So sorry for your loss. Your family has lost a wonderful woman. I met Mary at South Haven Hospital where we both worked. She always had a smile on her face and was so friendly to all. Thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Judy Rainey
January 9th, 2014 at 12:00am
Mary was one of my very special friends. I will, like you, miss her tremendously. Wish I could attend the mass for her but Big Island to South Haven is a very long journey. My sympathy, hugs, and kisses to all of you. Brian also sends his love. All the Hamlins and Martelli's are in our hearts and thoughts.
Mary Hyslop
January 9th, 2014 at 12:00am
My thoughts and prayers are with Mary's family. I have fond memories of spending time at the Hamlin's house. Also, Mary was very comforting when my mother was in the hospital. I played golf with Mary in 2012 and it was fun to reminisce about our high school days. I know that she will be greatly missed.
Linda Bartels
January 10th, 2014 at 12:00am
To the Martelli and Hamlin Family, We are very sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
John and Joy Geier36
John and Joy Geier
January 11th, 2014 at 12:00am
Mary was as beautiful as her handsome parents, Ward and Sue. And I am talking full-on in and out beauty. Her quiet, steady kindness was her signature. All the Repettos and Davises join me in sending love love love in support to the Hamlins each and all. Though we are slow in touching base, here, we have been carrying you about in our pockets, as the French would express. I believe memories are as alive as the moment is. And plenty of happy ones we have been blessed to share with the Hamlins. May the generations of friendships and love that surround you comfort and carry you through.
Mary Repetto Adzigian
January 12th, 2014 at 12:00am
The new kids on the Monroe block, circa 1960s, also extend our condolences to the Hamlin and Martelli families for your loss.
Steve & Elisabeth Giegerich
Steve Giegerich
January 12th, 2014 at 12:00am
Terry & the Hamlin Family
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister Mary. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have of her. Youβre in our thoughts and prayers.
Roger & Kathy (Overhuel) Acerra.
Kathy Acerra
January 13th, 2014 at 12:00am
To the Martelli family and all my brothers and sisters and their children and then their children. My sister Mary was a special person that understood the word sacrifice and sincerity. Mary gave many things up in her own life so that others would be more comfortable in theirs.
She was a gentle spirit with the heart of lion always following the tenants of her faith as taught in the Beatitudes.
The Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-12)
Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are the meek: for they shall possess the land.
Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice: for they shall have their fill.
Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the clean of heart: for they shall see God.
Blesses are the peacemakers: for they shall be called children of God.
Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are ye when they shall revile you, and persecute you, and speak all that is evil against you, untruly, for my sake: Be glad and rejoice, for your reward is very great in heaven.
I believe Mary to be in Heaven today with all the peace and grace that defy any worldly description or words to try and express the happiness and joy she knows after serving so many so well.
Dave Hamlin
January 15th, 2014 at 12:00am
To all the Hamlin and Martelli families, I send my prayers. it is so sad to hear of Mary's death. She was such a vital person, so full of care for others. The last time I saw her was at a Hamlin funeral. We lose the good too soon. I will always remember the enjoyable times I had at the Hamlin home, and with all the families in the neighborhood. Growing up in that time, with those fun people was indeed special . I will always treasure my memories.
God speed, Mary. Prayers to all your family. Suzanne Scott
suzanne scott
January 18th, 2014 at 12:00am
To the Martelli and Hamlin families:
So sad to hear the news of Mary's passing. She was so special to all of us. Our family cannot express enough the gratitude we feel for her for watching over Mom before she died. She was the bright spot in everyone's day. I will miss the happy hours at Ward's with her, Mom, Aunt Sue and Uncle Ward every time I came home to visit.
I never saw her without that wonderful smile! She taught us all the art of selflessness, and lived it everyday. She will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Patrick Nook
January 20th, 2014 at 12:00am
When Sally called me to say that Mary had died, I was initially shocked and this gave way to a sense of deep sadness. My heart goes out to all of my wonderful Hamlin cousins at the loss of Mary and her smile. My memories are from early childhood and family gatherings. There were the photos at Grandpa Overton's at Christmas with all 19 of us kids! There was lining up to get envelopes from great grandma Overton. I remember the consummate kindness of my Aunt Sue and Uncle Ward. I always felt welcomed and included by them. I loved my Uncle Ward's ham sandwiches.
I last spoke with Mary just before Uncle Ward died. She called to invite me to his birthday party. She said they were thinking about me. This in a
nutshell is Mary and my experience of my Hamlin cousins--they are always thinking about you. Thank you Mary for who you were, pray for me that I can do as well in thinking about others as you did.
My love to the Hamlin cousins and my wishes for the deepest level of healing. Your cousin Sarita
Sarita Overton
January 21st, 2014 at 12:00am
To all the Martellis' and our cousins,
Mary had the absolute biggest heart of gold. She will be greatly missed by so many of us. She has left many wonderful and funny childhood and adulthood memories of the Hamlins and the Nooks throughout her life. Her kindness to our Mom (Aunt Lorraine) will always live in our hearts. RIP Mary !!!!!
Love always,
The Nooks
Nancy (Nook) Stewart
January 24th, 2014 at 12:00am
Once again, our dear Hamlin and Martelli family...you need to know that the Betty Davis clan in California has been asking about all of you. Mary's smile and influence is truly coast to coast. So when Donna (Mackey's wife) wrote me yesterday in care of Mrs. Davis out there wondering about all of you, here is what I wrote:
Mary's funeral was gentle. She had set the tone with her family till the very end with her peace and courage. Sad but strong is how I would describe the mood.
Every soul who knows her understands the gigantic loss but also her huge contribution to her family, friends, and profession. Mary is the gift that keeps on giving in her example and inspiration.
All of old Monroe who is still around came out in Mary's honor. My sister Anne Weinrep and brother Jimmy did not attend because of the travel weather hassle. Mary would want everyone home safe and sound.
God bless you all. There will always be eternal love between us.
PJ Canonie-Bubin
PJ Canonie-Bubin
January 25th, 2014 at 12:00am